
A sad but true fact is everyone wants to be a model, a blonde, a blogger. Yet they’re uncomfortable in front of a cam, afraid to expand to other lenses besides your local iPhone Instagram filter filled playgrounds. As a blonde, you must have that look, must embrace the culture, and realized that there is a chemical alteration you must commit to; yet everyone wants the natural look. Writing isn’t just letters bunched together. Writing is a gift, writing speaks volumes. Understanding that you must have talent, you then create a voice for yourself that speaks levels. Without a voice you have no audience, and with no audience your thoughts & words are wasted. Balancing your identity is a task most of us have trouble doing because we either want to do what we are used to or what to do what is “popular” at the moment. Those of us who “live for the moment” are either careless or wealthy enough to deal with the consequences of what failure has to offer.
We spend a good portion growing up going through trail and error with our identity. the game is a competition of our own nature and what is acceptable in society. people tend to go outside of their nature and try strut in shoes they can’t walk in, dresses that don’t fit them, and score on courts they can’t play on. everyone is not from LA. Everyone doesnt have that New York City appeal. everyone doesn’t have that creative skill or charisma or stylish taste we call “swag.” all in all, we must come to understand that we must make or own path, we must make our own “motto.” Realizing that you only live once should be motivation to be remarkable not an excuse to defend ignorance or out of character behavior. We are who we are before we get here and spend a great deal of our life trying to figure out WHO that person is. Features, finances, and material possessions aren’t who we are. —- the blonde, —- the model, —- the blogger doesn’t define us. it’s a label. But the labels that hold weight and matter the most —– my friend, —- my daughter, —- my son, to those who would love us no differently no matter what we’re labeled as, or what and how much we own. we are all born as a blank canvas but it is what we do, what we decide, what we choose, and what we create that will define. All you can be is just YOU. So do it. Be you.
-Janae Rogers
Edited By : Freeman Williams